"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The last girl I nexted was built precisely like this, 29 years old, hot, cute Oklahoma accent. Wild and a bona-fide asks for it 3 holer to boot, but just too crazy for me, plus I'm not into big blondes so much. Was nice to take for a test drive though.

Mine was actually a little thicker (not much) and had even bigger boobs, so she was a borderline chubber but the all-naturals she was packing ... I had to try her.
 
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bigjohnson said:
The last girl I nexted was built precisely like this, 29 years old, hot, cute Oklahoma accent. Wild and a bona-fide asks for it 3 holer to boot, but just too crazy for me, plus I'm not into big blondes so much. Was nice to take for a test drive though.

Mine was actually a little thicker (not much) and had even bigger boobs, so she was a borderline chubber but the all-naturals she was packing ... I had to try her.
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You lucky guy.
 
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Ooh, I find her very attractive. If her personality was likewise attractive, I'd pursue her. (And if my will power kept my AFCness in check, perhaps the pursuit would yield delightful fruit).

A girl I'm seeing sounds similar to bigjohnson's, except more on the sane side. In fact, so far her personality seems quite good, so no NEXTING (though routine attempts of careful, emotionally-detached appraisals of things; must be careful not to let hornyness/enjoyment-of-affection cause me to subconsciously rationalize a lesser personality into something wonderful).

Girls, girls.
 
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You lucky guy.
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Dude she's honestly crazy. Party all night in a bar drinking and playing hold'em, then go home drunk and wants it in every orifice before passing out for the night crazy. Next day, getting rock concert tickets for the weekend before repeating crazy.

Nice slim waist for a fat girl though, and the hooters were huge, symmetrical and just perfectly gigantic. The face was a 7 at best, maybe 8 if she lost 20 pounds, but then things would sag so it's a no-win. Tight wet and wild though.

I really doubt she has aged well in the past 2-3 years since.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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