Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Back to the subject of "thick" women

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The last girl I nexted was built precisely like this, 29 years old, hot, cute Oklahoma accent. Wild and a bona-fide asks for it 3 holer to boot, but just too crazy for me, plus I'm not into big blondes so much. Was nice to take for a test drive though.

Mine was actually a little thicker (not much) and had even bigger boobs, so she was a borderline chubber but the all-naturals she was packing ... I had to try her.
 
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bigjohnson said:
The last girl I nexted was built precisely like this, 29 years old, hot, cute Oklahoma accent. Wild and a bona-fide asks for it 3 holer to boot, but just too crazy for me, plus I'm not into big blondes so much. Was nice to take for a test drive though.

Mine was actually a little thicker (not much) and had even bigger boobs, so she was a borderline chubber but the all-naturals she was packing ... I had to try her.
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You lucky guy.
 
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Ooh, I find her very attractive. If her personality was likewise attractive, I'd pursue her. (And if my will power kept my AFCness in check, perhaps the pursuit would yield delightful fruit).

A girl I'm seeing sounds similar to bigjohnson's, except more on the sane side. In fact, so far her personality seems quite good, so no NEXTING (though routine attempts of careful, emotionally-detached appraisals of things; must be careful not to let hornyness/enjoyment-of-affection cause me to subconsciously rationalize a lesser personality into something wonderful).

Girls, girls.
 
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You lucky guy.
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Dude she's honestly crazy. Party all night in a bar drinking and playing hold'em, then go home drunk and wants it in every orifice before passing out for the night crazy. Next day, getting rock concert tickets for the weekend before repeating crazy.

Nice slim waist for a fat girl though, and the hooters were huge, symmetrical and just perfectly gigantic. The face was a 7 at best, maybe 8 if she lost 20 pounds, but then things would sag so it's a no-win. Tight wet and wild though.

I really doubt she has aged well in the past 2-3 years since.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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