"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Back to the subject of "thick" women

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The last girl I nexted was built precisely like this, 29 years old, hot, cute Oklahoma accent. Wild and a bona-fide asks for it 3 holer to boot, but just too crazy for me, plus I'm not into big blondes so much. Was nice to take for a test drive though.

Mine was actually a little thicker (not much) and had even bigger boobs, so she was a borderline chubber but the all-naturals she was packing ... I had to try her.
 
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bigjohnson said:
The last girl I nexted was built precisely like this, 29 years old, hot, cute Oklahoma accent. Wild and a bona-fide asks for it 3 holer to boot, but just too crazy for me, plus I'm not into big blondes so much. Was nice to take for a test drive though.

Mine was actually a little thicker (not much) and had even bigger boobs, so she was a borderline chubber but the all-naturals she was packing ... I had to try her.
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You lucky guy.
 
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Ooh, I find her very attractive. If her personality was likewise attractive, I'd pursue her. (And if my will power kept my AFCness in check, perhaps the pursuit would yield delightful fruit).

A girl I'm seeing sounds similar to bigjohnson's, except more on the sane side. In fact, so far her personality seems quite good, so no NEXTING (though routine attempts of careful, emotionally-detached appraisals of things; must be careful not to let hornyness/enjoyment-of-affection cause me to subconsciously rationalize a lesser personality into something wonderful).

Girls, girls.
 
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You lucky guy.
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Dude she's honestly crazy. Party all night in a bar drinking and playing hold'em, then go home drunk and wants it in every orifice before passing out for the night crazy. Next day, getting rock concert tickets for the weekend before repeating crazy.

Nice slim waist for a fat girl though, and the hooters were huge, symmetrical and just perfectly gigantic. The face was a 7 at best, maybe 8 if she lost 20 pounds, but then things would sag so it's a no-win. Tight wet and wild though.

I really doubt she has aged well in the past 2-3 years since.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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