"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Back to the drawing board.....

Yoko Kurama

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I met a girl at McD's the other day, got her number, I thought she was interested in me. Turns out just today I found out that she just got broke up with and "doesn't want a relationship" BULL****! I'm sick of chicks fvcking lieing to me!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX

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Act towards chicks the way you do when you don't like them.

Also next the Mcd's chick if you haven't already.

Do it politely such as "thanks but I have enough friends" and move on.
 

Kevin Feng

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Hey bud,

I don't think she's lying, most people don't want relationships RIGHT AFTER they break up.

I don't see what you're upset about, just because she just broke up doesn't mean she's off the market, you can still game her and hook up with her. Plus in the first two months of seeing someone, the word "dating" should never be in your vocab. I mean, if it works out and you guys turn out to be very compatible, well then great, otherwise, no harm done, give her some room to breath
 
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