"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Back to the drawing board.....

Yoko Kurama

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I met a girl at McD's the other day, got her number, I thought she was interested in me. Turns out just today I found out that she just got broke up with and "doesn't want a relationship" BULL****! I'm sick of chicks fvcking lieing to me!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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Act towards chicks the way you do when you don't like them.

Also next the Mcd's chick if you haven't already.

Do it politely such as "thanks but I have enough friends" and move on.
 

Kevin Feng

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Hey bud,

I don't think she's lying, most people don't want relationships RIGHT AFTER they break up.

I don't see what you're upset about, just because she just broke up doesn't mean she's off the market, you can still game her and hook up with her. Plus in the first two months of seeing someone, the word "dating" should never be in your vocab. I mean, if it works out and you guys turn out to be very compatible, well then great, otherwise, no harm done, give her some room to breath
 
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