"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Back to School Experience So Far

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Well I started school once again last Monday (the 8th). This year is my senior year, and all summer I was generally siked for it. Now that school has started, I have to say it's going even better than I could have hoped.

I'm still with my g/f (total HB), and it gives me mad social proof at school. People see us walking around together, I notice ALL KINDS of chicks giving me the eye as they pass by. Quite the feeling you get, I have to say. Get to know the hotties, it will benefit you so much. Social proof works guys, use it whenever possible.

I decided this year was the time to cut back with the BS and get through school. I'm paying attention in class, and doing all my homework. It's actually making me feel a lot better about going to school, getting things accomplished.

I'm friendly to everybody I see now. I'm always chatting to new people I see and making new friends. It's starting to seem as if I know everybody in the school, its a great feeling.

However, now that the initial shock value of summer being over and being back in school is over, it also brings upon mega chances for improvement, and this is the year I'm not making any excuses, and I'm doing what needs to be done. So I have a few ideas and questions, I'd appreciate some input on.

-I need to get a job, start getting some cash flow going.

-I need to start working out, I've realized I'm really self-conscious of my skinny guy image.

-I'm getting a few new hobbies. I'm going to get into paintball again and start snowboarding this winter, something I've always wanted to do.

-I need to get my license, so I can drive my lazy ass around.

Enough idea's though, now a couple questions...

- There's a HB9 in one of my classes, who knows I have a gf, and I know she has a bf, the whole deal. I DJ her regularly, and she responds LIKE MAD. She's always touching me, finding excuses to talk to me, writing me notes of sexual nature, and even today was getting me to check out inside her shirt at her bra that was irritating her. The thing is, every once in a while she'll mention her boyfriend, but other than that, she's giving off a TOTAL "i want you" vibe. What do you guys think is up?

-And exactly how far should I be taking my macking on other chicks when most know I have a gf? It's hard to know where the line is, some seem completely into your game, and some will run to your woman if you even say 'hello'. Makes it difficult to maintain a relationship and improve my game at the same time if you know what I mean.

Well, hopefully I'll get some decent input into some of these things, I'm trying to get everything down this year. Every week or two I'll post a new thread like this, with how things are going, what I've been improving on and the like and what needs work next. Until then, I hope to get some good feedback here.
 

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RIchardo

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Glad to hear it bro, i just started my senior year and the ladies are coming in fine.

Watch out about dj'n other chicks like mad when you have a steady gf though, i did that for practice last year and i got dumped haha.
 

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Your ability to DJ other chicks completely depends on how secure your current gf is about your relationship. I know a really great guy who totally macks on the girls all day and his gf is completely cool with it (they've been dating for 2 years now).

As for the HB9, if you think she's into you, then she's definately into you :D
 

P.I.M.P.

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That could be a problem then. My g/f absolutely hates me flirting with other girls (especially since I only bother with the HBs)! I used to be too pimp for my own good, makes it hard for her to trust me. I'm quite careful about who I lay the mack down on, it's a small list of chicks who are receptive, hot and in no way connected to my woman. (A few days ago one of the dumb tools walked right up to my woman looking for me though. :rolleyes:

This is the one I posted about who keeps giving me buying signals as well. The girl has a boyfriend, she gives me mad interest signals, and now she's involving my girlfriend. Could this be nothing but a troublemaking attention wh*re? It's a possibility, but I doubt it. The kino says it all. She WANTS me to check out her tits, touch her ass, and constantly be close to her (which I have no problem doing :D.) Seems to me like she just wants to hop on my d*ck.

Anyone else have any ideas on whats going on?
 
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