"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

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For the last few months, I've been in a bit of a slump. I had a lousy Christmas, my divorce is still in the final stages of being wrapped up, I got dumped by my gf, and I've been on a bunch of dates with women who have been less than spectacular. On top of that, I live in Canada and it's been taking FOREVER for Spring to arrive, so I've got a bit of the Winter blues.

The temperature is supposed to be warming up in the next week or so, and when the scent of mud and wet grass hits my nose, I get a burst of energy. I'm going to put that energy to use and get my ass back into the DJ bootcamp.

I'm not completely woman-less, I have a couple of prospects and that psycho 911 chick is supposed to be coming back into the city. The thing is, I need new women, new prospects, new dates, and new experiences. I need to get out and meet new women. I haven't done anything for cold approaches in a while.

Some of you will remember that I did the bootcamp before and got hung up on Week #4. It wasn't because of my inability to ask for the phone number, but my difficulty of maintaining conversations with women. I'm pretty sure I have a game plan for overcoming this major obstacle, and time will tell if it works.

I'm beginning the boot camp on April 12. After my first experience with the bootcamp, I've decided to allow myself two weeks for each exercise instead of the standard one week. The reason being is that I have my son for half of each week. Women are NOT more important than him, so I need to keep my priorities in order.

Wish me luck...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don_Dom

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Good luck, bro. Minus the divorce and kid, that's pretty much where I'm at now. Wasn't planning on actually doing the Boot Camp per se, but your post has me thinking this might be a good time to do it.

BTW, I'm in the US south and spring is taking its sweet ass time arriving down here too. I don't mind winter but it needs to end once it's April pronto.
 

Fatal Jay

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Yeah I'm going back to bootcamp on the 7th, all the way to may 7th which is my bday

I don't call my bootcamp, bootcamp though, I call mine Fatal Jay's Revenge Saga.
 

evan12

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If you are in GTA I would like to hear some of your field report.
 

j0504s

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GOOD LUCK!
Should be a peice of cake for you!
Think Im gonna move over to this furom section and start posting FR here
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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