"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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For the last few months, I've been in a bit of a slump. I had a lousy Christmas, my divorce is still in the final stages of being wrapped up, I got dumped by my gf, and I've been on a bunch of dates with women who have been less than spectacular. On top of that, I live in Canada and it's been taking FOREVER for Spring to arrive, so I've got a bit of the Winter blues.

The temperature is supposed to be warming up in the next week or so, and when the scent of mud and wet grass hits my nose, I get a burst of energy. I'm going to put that energy to use and get my ass back into the DJ bootcamp.

I'm not completely woman-less, I have a couple of prospects and that psycho 911 chick is supposed to be coming back into the city. The thing is, I need new women, new prospects, new dates, and new experiences. I need to get out and meet new women. I haven't done anything for cold approaches in a while.

Some of you will remember that I did the bootcamp before and got hung up on Week #4. It wasn't because of my inability to ask for the phone number, but my difficulty of maintaining conversations with women. I'm pretty sure I have a game plan for overcoming this major obstacle, and time will tell if it works.

I'm beginning the boot camp on April 12. After my first experience with the bootcamp, I've decided to allow myself two weeks for each exercise instead of the standard one week. The reason being is that I have my son for half of each week. Women are NOT more important than him, so I need to keep my priorities in order.

Wish me luck...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don_Dom

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Good luck, bro. Minus the divorce and kid, that's pretty much where I'm at now. Wasn't planning on actually doing the Boot Camp per se, but your post has me thinking this might be a good time to do it.

BTW, I'm in the US south and spring is taking its sweet ass time arriving down here too. I don't mind winter but it needs to end once it's April pronto.
 

Fatal Jay

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Yeah I'm going back to bootcamp on the 7th, all the way to may 7th which is my bday

I don't call my bootcamp, bootcamp though, I call mine Fatal Jay's Revenge Saga.
 

evan12

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If you are in GTA I would like to hear some of your field report.
 

j0504s

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GOOD LUCK!
Should be a peice of cake for you!
Think Im gonna move over to this furom section and start posting FR here
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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