"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Back to Basics: Challenge Her

ChaoticGamer

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Hello there !

I feel I've reached a milestone in my Life, and need to take my game to the next level. (I feel like I'm stuck really) My journey has already begun, and for that, I decided to go back to basics and refine some concepts that may have been lost in the last 2 years.

I feel I need to be able to deal with women's objections Better, and for that I've done my homework, and found a Principle that I need that you guys explain in detail to me:

When she is being difficult, challenge her

In that last Phrase; which summarizes a procedure that one must deeply understand you can find the key about How one should definitely behave; In a Situation which is excessively common.

Could someone give an example of How to challenge a girl? (And in which particular scenario do I need to challenge her?)
I'm looking for solid examples. (If it's not much of a trouble (especially on WHAT to say))

Have a nice day,
Sincerely,
CG
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Young Juan

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Confident Persistence. I know its a movie, but Casino Royale is a great example of confident persistence, dealing with objections, plowing with class, etc. up until the part where they literally bust his balls. Calm demeanor, witty persistent comebacks, never losing your cool because they're plenty more where she came from.
 

ChaoticGamer

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Cool, And I understand the Bond attitude and all, but definitely not what I'm looking for. What I was thinking is how to act, when a girl reaches that Point in her life; Where she has to come up with an answer to a proposition (implicit or explicit) Like When she knows she must start a more formal relationship with you.. and she's (usually) doubtful, and speaks out an Objection.. (She's being difficult), right?
 
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