"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Back to Basics: Challenge Her

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Hello there !

I feel I've reached a milestone in my Life, and need to take my game to the next level. (I feel like I'm stuck really) My journey has already begun, and for that, I decided to go back to basics and refine some concepts that may have been lost in the last 2 years.

I feel I need to be able to deal with women's objections Better, and for that I've done my homework, and found a Principle that I need that you guys explain in detail to me:

When she is being difficult, challenge her

In that last Phrase; which summarizes a procedure that one must deeply understand you can find the key about How one should definitely behave; In a Situation which is excessively common.

Could someone give an example of How to challenge a girl? (And in which particular scenario do I need to challenge her?)
I'm looking for solid examples. (If it's not much of a trouble (especially on WHAT to say))

Have a nice day,
Sincerely,
CG
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Confident Persistence. I know its a movie, but Casino Royale is a great example of confident persistence, dealing with objections, plowing with class, etc. up until the part where they literally bust his balls. Calm demeanor, witty persistent comebacks, never losing your cool because they're plenty more where she came from.
 
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Cool, And I understand the Bond attitude and all, but definitely not what I'm looking for. What I was thinking is how to act, when a girl reaches that Point in her life; Where she has to come up with an answer to a proposition (implicit or explicit) Like When she knows she must start a more formal relationship with you.. and she's (usually) doubtful, and speaks out an Objection.. (She's being difficult), right?
 
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