"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm 5'11'' and waeigh 161 lbs. My question is that should I be using a back support when i squat? My max squat right now is 300. Some people say i shouldn't but others say it is a must for squats.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I personally don't use them at all but I don't squat much and when I do I don't go too heavy. I've heard and I believe that back supports actually hinder your lower back from gaining strength while working out. I think you should only use it for squatting a ton of weight. Other than that I wouldn't use it.
 

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Some say do, some say dont.

Do whatever you want, but I dont use 'em. I wont use them until my squats get up to the 500lbs mark. I'll never bother with knee straps either.
 

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the belt helps it so you dont use your stomach/ back. so unless you want to risk a hernia , don't use a belt. otherwise I suggest using it for squats/cleans/ etc
 

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Back support really messes with your core. Leaves it weak and more prone to getting injured doing squats.

Unless you're form is shyt, and you don't have a spotter, and your lower back isn't all wacked out, don't use a belt at all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don't use a belt, it just messes with your stabalizer muscles and gets you to be lazy with your form.

Geez, man, be happy with what you lift; what you're lifting now is great. Most people want to keep lifting more and more, but taking shortcuts is not the way to do it. It will come a little more slowly, but you'll be a lot stronger and better for you in the long run.
 

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thanks, I just wanted to know if I was putting myself at a big risk without one.
 
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