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j0n024

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Hey guys.

I have been working out maybe for 2 months now and I have been having some back problems. Nothing to bad but when I tilt sometimes I can feel my back hurt a little, I try to pop it and I hear my back pop or when I start to do chest-flys when I pick up the weights I can hear my back pop. I was wondering what your advice was or if anyone had any insight as to WHY my back hurts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lower back? Does it hurt if you're just sitting normally (after a while)? Do you do leg lifts?

It sounds like it's either exertion or you need to work on your lifting technique. Lower back pops are common to both muscle strains and tendon/ligament problems.

I would talk to your GP if the pain feels like it extends down the middle of your knees (hard to describe in English :/) or it does not get better in 2-3 weeks from when it started. You might be interested in looking up some gentle back stretches.
 

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No it isnt the lower back more like the midback, I also dont have a problem sitting down just when I tilt or put pressure on certain parts of my back. I am thinking of going to one of those massage places and having them just massage the crap out of me ....I just hope it isnt anything serious.
 

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Most of the bad ones I've heard of are lower back. I wouldn't worry too much. Do what Quagmire suggested, get your massage and do a couple stretches. If for some reason it does not go away then do goto the GP.
 

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