"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Back problems.

j0n024

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Hey guys.

I have been working out maybe for 2 months now and I have been having some back problems. Nothing to bad but when I tilt sometimes I can feel my back hurt a little, I try to pop it and I hear my back pop or when I start to do chest-flys when I pick up the weights I can hear my back pop. I was wondering what your advice was or if anyone had any insight as to WHY my back hurts.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Heart Break Kid

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Lower back? Does it hurt if you're just sitting normally (after a while)? Do you do leg lifts?

It sounds like it's either exertion or you need to work on your lifting technique. Lower back pops are common to both muscle strains and tendon/ligament problems.

I would talk to your GP if the pain feels like it extends down the middle of your knees (hard to describe in English :/) or it does not get better in 2-3 weeks from when it started. You might be interested in looking up some gentle back stretches.
 

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No it isnt the lower back more like the midback, I also dont have a problem sitting down just when I tilt or put pressure on certain parts of my back. I am thinking of going to one of those massage places and having them just massage the crap out of me ....I just hope it isnt anything serious.
 

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Most of the bad ones I've heard of are lower back. I wouldn't worry too much. Do what Quagmire suggested, get your massage and do a couple stretches. If for some reason it does not go away then do goto the GP.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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