Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

speed dawg

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Because I do need to get laid. Anyhow you guys are obviously biased towards your own methods. I was hoping this forum could teach me how to grow in my natural style but it's just another seduction site telling me to do things YOUR way which I have already said hasn't ever worked for me.

I'm not about to do things that way again just because YOU say so. You don't seem to get that it hasn't worked for me.

Help me to develop what IS working for me, not what works for YOU. Please and thank you or I will be leaving because there is no value here if all you can tell me is to do things the way I've already tried for years and got nowhere with. I only lost my virginity and started having lots of sex by doing things MY way.

I'm not against learning how to have better lines and challenge women like you say but that has also always gotten me blocked.

I'm not against learning anything new or trying new things, as long as they ARE new things, not things I've tried already and ;proven not to work for me.

Obviously my game needs work or I wouldn't be here, I'm just not about to do the same things that haven't worked for me for the millionth time.

Since I'm not into being a dancing monkey and trying to entertain girls, it is hard to have a conversation with a girl for me. I'd love a solution but in the end the goal isn't to have conversations with girls, the goal is to have sex with them repeatedly.
Another guy coming to the forum and instantly telling everybody how wrong we all are. That's two in one day. Rinse, repeat.

The basics stay the same, today, tomorrow, forever. If your natural game is a simp, well, you need to change it. If you can't interact with people in real life, well, you need to change that. You obviously want some type of LTR because you had one with the girl that caused you to make this thread. You went AFC on her in some way. You're going to have to work on your life if you want to keep any type of decent woman around, else if you're just in it for the pvssy and offer nothing else, you'll keep getting what you got before.

First, what is it you want help with? Simply getting laid, or keeping a girlfriend?
 

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Another guy coming to the forum and instantly telling everybody how wrong we all are. That's two in one day. Rinse, repeat.

The basics stay the same, today, tomorrow, forever. If your natural game is a simp, well, you need to change it. If you can't interact with people in real life, well, you need to change that. You obviously want some type of LTR because you had one with the girl that caused you to make this thread. You went AFC on her in some way. You're going to have to work on your life if you want to keep any type of decent woman around, else if you're just in it for the pvssy and offer nothing else, you'll keep getting what you got before.

First, what is it you want help with? Simply getting laid, or keeping a girlfriend?
+1

Nicely said. Speed mate, most fellas are lazy as ****. Gym-cell till the first semi decent looking girl and than it's crushing ice cream and talking about feelers. Ghosting the boys and his balls in her purse. That is the majority of men who fall into the 80% category of the Pareto distribution. The women are not ****ing with these men or return after the carousel and hitting the wall.

In his defense, just like the rest of us, he is in a girl power echo chamber. Everything is Disney on ice. Women are ruthless about weeding a man's genes out of existence and wasting his time. It's then victimhood at 35 and where are the good men. It's conveniently around the time her interest level from top shelf men stop coming. Still, men need to go through the fire and see female nature. Then and only then they can proceed with WHAT IS.

As a die hard man in game and pickup, I understand that the common man doesn't approach and the few who do got trash game. The ROI is there but it's a **** load of energy. At this stage now, choosing signals, IOIs, and a handful of sets everyday just cause. That's a better way to proceed than a decade of pickup. The majority of men aren't sourcing women. Are low T. They are sifting through trash and got some women thirty plus with that million mile of cawk stare con jobs beta cuck into play house.

Forged in fire. It's the only way. Small cunk aporoaches everyday. Swipe. More importantly, be about legacy and chasing your purpose. Not women. Most married men say women are dream killers. Hah
 

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I think you guys got the wrong idea. I’m not monogamous. I realized going that way was a mistake last year (AFC?)

anyhow I ****ed my fwb today and going to **** an 18 year old tomorrow. I just want more and better girls. Not relationships, perpetual fwbs
 

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didn’t **** the 18 year old after all. She had a massively hairy *****. Such a turn off. Feel kind of turned off of women after that lol
 

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Hey guys, hope everyone has had a good year despite the covid craziness.

My year was good, better now that my gf and I broke up. Long story short we hit it off amazingly. Sex more times than I could keep up with to the point where I had to tell her "no" repeatedly if only to save my **** from being destroyed. We moved in together in march and things immediately changed and went downhill. The situation got increasingly unhappy and finally fell apart. Now I'm free and feel great about it.

That said, I find myself craving more.

I've never been good at "game" and went my own way. Did my own thing that often flew in the face of what pua's would say. In short: I do what works for me, but I feel I'm not as effective as I could be. It's a catch 22 because doing pua has never worked for me while doing my own thing hasn't gotten me the full results I want.

I've come to this forum hoping I can learn how to increase my natural game more effectively and hopefully stop doing whatever is killing things for me sometimes.

Thanks for reading.
Increase your volume. Numbers game. The problem many guys make is they try and chat up 5 women and if it doesn't pan out they pack up their stuff and call it a day and say it doesn't work.

They should be messaging or chatting with 5-10 new women a week and keeping their pipeline flowing. Once they start building a pipeline and women they want to see again then they can start cutting back on the numbers a little bit.

Literally this is all that is required along with analyzing your actions if you keep having the same failures with multiple different women and making changes until it starts working.
 
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