"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Back off rude attitude lures woman?

CherryBreaker

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Has this ever happened to you guys or could it be considered a DJ techno K.

There's a few girls that I really want to date but have either lied to me or was very disrepectful. BTW, they considered me just a friend! So what do I do when I come across them? I treat them like crap such as insult their appearances or their outfits, I even tell them to MOVE! if they're in my way. None of it jokingly like a neg-hit but downright straight from my mind. Basically, being a jerk/ahole.

I noticed that the hb6-7 chicks really stop talking to me and don't want to have anything to do with me but the really hot ones hb8-10 are always sticking around and attempting to talk to me or brush up against me.

BTW, I don't want to date any of these chicks because they're just inconsiderate of guys and they all know that I act that way because like one girl said "You're mean to me because you know I don't like you anymore."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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catch

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when you do this, is it because they have rejected you then??

if they just genrally horrible then you should take it all in your stride man, cuz your on a learning path of how to controle yourself with women. dont let them know that they have pissed you off, cuz they see you as emotionally weak!!!
 

rgeere

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One of the biggest fables when it comes to women is that they are all attracted specifically to jerks and not to nice guys. This is not true ...

The truth is that women will have sex and relationships with both nice guys and jerks. The only reason why it appears that the jerks are winning is because they are assertive about their sexuality and are not ashamed to show and can get close to people. Nice guys on the other hand are just generally ashamed of themselves to begin with and do not assert themselves sexually and are even afraid about their sexuality and closeness to other people.


Women really arn't that perticular and will have sex with nice guys who have back bones, also known as good guys. This is what you want to be not the jerk.
 

catch

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yeah that sounds true.. still, theres a lot that we still dont know about the nice guy vs jerk situation, might just depend on the girl..

they may just be attracted to a mans mental strength and will power! what do think about that??
 

rgeere

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Originally posted by catch
yeah that sounds true.. still, theres a lot that we still dont know about the nice guy vs jerk situation, might just depend on the girl..

they may just be attracted to a mans mental strength and will power! what do think about that??
All women want is a man who can fend for himself ... It doesn't matter if a man is good or bad necessarily, but good women tend to seek out goodmen whereas bad women will seek out the bad men.That's what I have seen in my experience anyhways.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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