Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Back off rude attitude lures woman?

CherryBreaker

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Has this ever happened to you guys or could it be considered a DJ techno K.

There's a few girls that I really want to date but have either lied to me or was very disrepectful. BTW, they considered me just a friend! So what do I do when I come across them? I treat them like crap such as insult their appearances or their outfits, I even tell them to MOVE! if they're in my way. None of it jokingly like a neg-hit but downright straight from my mind. Basically, being a jerk/ahole.

I noticed that the hb6-7 chicks really stop talking to me and don't want to have anything to do with me but the really hot ones hb8-10 are always sticking around and attempting to talk to me or brush up against me.

BTW, I don't want to date any of these chicks because they're just inconsiderate of guys and they all know that I act that way because like one girl said "You're mean to me because you know I don't like you anymore."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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catch

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when you do this, is it because they have rejected you then??

if they just genrally horrible then you should take it all in your stride man, cuz your on a learning path of how to controle yourself with women. dont let them know that they have pissed you off, cuz they see you as emotionally weak!!!
 

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One of the biggest fables when it comes to women is that they are all attracted specifically to jerks and not to nice guys. This is not true ...

The truth is that women will have sex and relationships with both nice guys and jerks. The only reason why it appears that the jerks are winning is because they are assertive about their sexuality and are not ashamed to show and can get close to people. Nice guys on the other hand are just generally ashamed of themselves to begin with and do not assert themselves sexually and are even afraid about their sexuality and closeness to other people.


Women really arn't that perticular and will have sex with nice guys who have back bones, also known as good guys. This is what you want to be not the jerk.
 

catch

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yeah that sounds true.. still, theres a lot that we still dont know about the nice guy vs jerk situation, might just depend on the girl..

they may just be attracted to a mans mental strength and will power! what do think about that??
 

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Originally posted by catch
yeah that sounds true.. still, theres a lot that we still dont know about the nice guy vs jerk situation, might just depend on the girl..

they may just be attracted to a mans mental strength and will power! what do think about that??
All women want is a man who can fend for himself ... It doesn't matter if a man is good or bad necessarily, but good women tend to seek out goodmen whereas bad women will seek out the bad men.That's what I have seen in my experience anyhways.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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