Back in action, lesson learned, never only 1 girl anymore

[user252009]

After too long of a dry spell, I'm back in action. She might not be an 8 or a 10, but I got myself me out of my dry spell funk over this "active" weekend. As I'm not too attached to this one, my plan is to now get one or two more on my backburner and casually dating plan, because I learned my lesson. Have only one girl and none ready to go in the pipeline, and once this one girl is gone, that's where the danger lies and the dry spell starts. The longer it goes on, the more fearful you are and more likely the dreaded oneitis is likely to happen (had it happen).

 

[Scars]

Yep, always have a replacement ready. It will keep your emotions in check. Your body language will match your words when you jokingly tell her she can easily be replaced.. because she will feel it like a third sense and know it's true.

 

[user252009]

Yep, always have a replacement ready. It will keep your emotions in check. Your body language will match your words when you jokingly tell her she can easily be replaced.. because she will feel it like a third sense and know it's true.

I don't know if I'd ever tell that to a woman, I'd show it with my attitude though. And that can genuinely come just from genuinely having more options.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Yeah abudnace mentality is to make sure you don't get oneitis

 

[user252009]

OR another idea could be to not sweat it if you have 0 plates or 3.
Ultimately there is only you.

Yeah, but when it's been several years...yes, years

 

[user252009]

Years? Ok well you said a dry spell. What caused the hiatus? Or dry spell?

Apologies, English is not my native language. I'm not a very social person, and just haven't had any luck with online dating

 

[backseatjuan]

Always have a backup chick.

 

[Glassguy]

The ability to walk away is the most powerful leverage in any relationship. If you have more chicks in the pipeline on standby it makes walking away that much easier. Therefore you are not faking a strong frame, but you actually can have a strong frame in terms of being able to make decisions that best favor YOU and if a chick wants to argue or fight over stupid stuff, walk away knowing you have another one essentially waiting in the hanger.

 

[user252009]

Girl that rejected me has been walking into my office recently, as well as liking my social media posts. Just hunting for attention/validation, I reckon, no texting has been initiated yet. Ay wahmen

 

[user252009]

Women DONT give you a strong frame guys. Dont fall for this fallacy.

I never said they do