“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Back-handed compliment AND opportunity

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I was talking to a friend of mine (female) about my difficulties finding a girl after breaking up with my last gf over the summer. Apparently in an attempt to be nice, she told me "Oh don't worry Leporello, you're a real hidden gem".

Whoah. 'Hidden gem'? Not Colin Firth certainly, but 'hidden gem'? That's like telling a girl she has a nice personality.

And now for something completely different...

There's a girl I had class with last year. I went abroad for second semester and we didn't really keep in touch. Every time I see her now, though, she's really agressive in a C + F kind of way. Trouble is, i almost never see her.

I know she works in one of the campus offices (because she told me to stop by) so i stopped by and she wasn't there. Since I don't have her cell I sent her kind of a jackass-y message on facebook:

"Hey, i stopped by the office and you weren't there. Here I am trying to be nice..."

and she wrote back:

"Lol! You're awesome! I'll be there on Friday!"

Obviously this is a positive response. You guys read anything else into it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Obviously, you should go see her and game her. The light is green.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Obviously, you should go see her and game her. The light is green.
Sure. I'll report back after Friday.
 
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