Hello fellow dj's Ive been back from a while ago say probably 3 to 4 years. I need advice right now I'm a disabled veteran and I am set for life the thing now is that its hard for me to find women and also it is hard to say I'm disabled. Im schizophrenic and also I have scars on my knees from being in the Military. I have a picture of myself I would like to show you guys I dont know how I rate or what I need to improve on and would like to. anyways hope you guys could be of assistance.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
I respect your military service, so thanks for that.rossmuten said:Hello fellow dj's Ive been back from a while ago say probably 3 to 4 years. I need advice right now I'm a disabled veteran and I am set for life the thing now is that its hard for me to find women and also it is hard to say I'm disabled. Im schizophrenic and also I have scars on my knees from being in the Military. I have a picture of myself I would like to show you guys I dont know how I rate or what I need to improve on and would like to. anyways hope you guys could be of assistance.
First things first, having us "rate" you doesn't do you any good. You look how you look. Unless you have some porn star mustache or dress like a total d-bag, you're stuck with the body god gave you. You'd already know if you're overweight, etc. No offense, I just feel like it's weird when dudes ask to be rated here. What if you were a**hole ugly? What is a rating gonna do about that? Just look the best YOU can look, and screw what the world rates you as.
Secondly, why do women need to know about your disability? I might have all kinds of various personal issues going on...I don't tell women about them. I mean yeah, as the relationship opens up, you'll want to talk about your past, etc. But for the attraction stage...why bother?
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
The scars on your knees will matter 0%!!!! I have a scar on my neck from when doctors were removing a skintag from my neck and MESSED UP when i was 2 weeks old! It's very noticeable, and i've been asked more than once who gave me the hickie on my neck (it's HUGE, how people mistake it for a hickie - as if im going to let someone suck up down my neck for 6 inches or so - is beyond me)....rossmuten said:Im schizophrenic and also I have scars on my knees from being in the Military. I have a picture of myself I would like to show you guys I dont know how I rate or what I need to improve on and would like to. anyways hope you guys could be of assistance.
The Schizophrenic part is a different story. I know a guy who's married who has that - but he takes a lot of meds and is always groggy sounding from them. He's able to function and have conversations, but he doesn't have a lot of fight in him. So, his wife pretty much runs the relationship. Which is never a good thing. Is it bad? Do you take meds? If you're coming out and telling women that right off the bat - you're probably only going to attract women who like danger and see your disability as such.
Pic - You look like you're wearing a shirt that you slept in. Other than that - don't worry too much; you're perfectly fine. Just upgrade your wardrobe.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
thanks Bukowski I'm on abilify it slows my metabolism down a bit but the medication is supposed to give me clear thinking. Thanks I am trying to upgrade a lot these days and the wardrobe sounds about right. Here is another picture.http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/913/hellod.jpg
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
I'm having a hard time understanding how your disability is affecting the way women act towards you... MOST women are more affectionate towards a mans emotions if they know he's disabled. From what you say - they shouldn't be able to know this. No one wants the rep of being the b!tch who acted b!tchy towards a guy because he was disabled. Do you really think a man in a wheelchair would get a "get lost" response from a HB?rossmuten said:Girls haven't been so nice lately since ive been disabled a lot have been prudish,rude,shallow,and some called me a LOSER so right now Ive been wondering wtf!!!
Your schizophrenia is not even something the women should be able to detect.
The scars on your knees shouldn't even be visible (unless you're wearing shorts).
How are either of those things going to get you called a loser?
The problem isn't that at all. It's something else. The way you're approaching, what you're saying, etc.
You're not getting any more hate than a normal guy who trys pick-up does. It's just - you have this disability that you believe is glaring for everyone to see. But it's not... But since you believe that - whenever you get rejected - you blame it.... You can't improve by placing blame on intangibles that you cannot control.