"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bachelorette Parties

Uncharted

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Approaching bachelorette parties is so easy to do and it's easy to pick up the single one(s) of the group (or disqualify the whole group quickly).

1. Approach the bride-to-be quickly and say "Congratulations!" and give her a high-five. No bride-to-be has EVER turned me down from this.
2. She will say thanks or whatever. Then you ask when she's getting married. She will say a few weeks. You say "Wow that's so soon! You better enjoy yourself tonight. You should definitely NOT get married. I've been married 7 times already (or some other joke)". They will laugh unless you are a weirdo. Then you say "Is everyone here married?" (look around the group)
3. The girls will ALWAYS point out the single one of the group (if there is one).
4. If she's hot, target acquired and you just got yourself some social proof. If not, say "well hey Congrats again" and move on. If there are two, play them off each other.
5. Make sure you flirt with your target AND the entire group. Make sure you include the bride though since she is the "VIP" for the night. But also KINO THE SH!T out of your target.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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VladPatton

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Might work. Unless they are a bunch of entitled richie rich cünts from Connecticut. Plenty of them come to the city for bachelorette shindigs.
 

Smell The Glove

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Thanks for the advice. Next time i'm invited to a bachelorette party i'll be sure to implement these tactics.
 
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