"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bachelorette parties

Naughty Ninja

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How do you guys feel about them? Do you feel it's alot of women slvtting it up before they get married?

Any stories involving meeting women in bachelorette parties that are either getting married or part of them with a significant other, husband etc?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women usually slvt it up at those parties. They will fvck strippers or random guys at bars.
 

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Well my last experience was about a month ago, I went back to the hotel room with 6 of em, hooked up with 2 of em while the others watched. No I didn't do the bride to be.

So yes, I'd say they're pretty much like a trip to Mexico/Vegas. Just another reason to slut it up.
 

Just a Shot Away

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DJDanny said:
Well my last experience was about a month ago, I went back to the hotel room with 6 of em, hooked up with 2 of em while the others watched. No I didn't do the bride to be.

So yes, I'd say they're pretty much like a trip to Mexico/Vegas. Just another reason to slut it up.
My last experience was a few months ago where I picked up 4 ladies on their bachelorette party in my taxi. I gave them a ride to where they wanted to go and dropped them off without incident (unless you count one chick asking me to sing as part of her little "goal checklist".)

Just sharing that to provide balance to the discussion. ;) This story is how pretty much all my bachelorette party fares went down.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Strelok

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They complain so much about men being superficial and dirty while the first thing they do once obtained "equality" is to do what they find dirty and superficial in men,parties with strippers and casual sex.
 

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I've seen men at their worst and I've seen women at their worst.
Let's just say, it wasn't surprising to see that the things I've seen women do in comparison to the men, is FAR worse.

It's almost like Halloween, where women truly reveal their inner slut.
 

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Kailex said:
I've seen men at their worst and I've seen women at their worst.
Let's just say, it wasn't surprising to see that the things I've seen women do in comparison to the men, is FAR worse.

It's almost like Halloween, where women truly reveal their inner slut.

Please elaborate... I'm from the garden state too btw :)
 

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I've been to bachelor parties and I've SEEN bachelorette parties.

By far, what the men do is severely outweighed by what the women do. With men, it seems like they can only go as far as their conscience or as the stripper will let them go. But whatever men do, it's usually more congruent with their day-to-day behavior than with women.

Most of the women at bachelorette parties are women that tend to seem "virginal" in their everday lives. You know, the women that couldn't possibly do a thing wrong and drop their jaws whenever they find out that one of their girlfriends screwed around on her boyfriend.

But behind closed doors, these women unleash their inner slvts.
There's no other men to criticize them there, there's no "society" to criticize them. They are ALL accomplices. It's like an unspoken code of honor (if such a thing exists for them) in which nothing will ever really be said about what TRULY happened. Those that are always talking about how *******bs are beneath them, are all of a sudden spraying a can of Ready Whip onto some stripper's johnson and cleaning that thing faster than LeBron James can bolt to Miami.

And usually, all of the women will only go as far as what the woman that's done the most during the whole party... will go. And more often than not, it's pretty far.
 

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Wow, a whole lotta fear in this thread! I've seen bachelorette parties and they're usually pretty damn tame. I doubt very much that women want their close personal friends to see them having sex with random strangers... that story would get around REAL fast.

Or do y'all just want to fantasize that women are out there getting drunk and screwing like crazed monkeys?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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