"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bachelorette parties

Naughty Ninja

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How do you guys feel about them? Do you feel it's alot of women slvtting it up before they get married?

Any stories involving meeting women in bachelorette parties that are either getting married or part of them with a significant other, husband etc?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Last_straw

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Women usually slvt it up at those parties. They will fvck strippers or random guys at bars.
 

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Well my last experience was about a month ago, I went back to the hotel room with 6 of em, hooked up with 2 of em while the others watched. No I didn't do the bride to be.

So yes, I'd say they're pretty much like a trip to Mexico/Vegas. Just another reason to slut it up.
 

Just a Shot Away

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DJDanny said:
Well my last experience was about a month ago, I went back to the hotel room with 6 of em, hooked up with 2 of em while the others watched. No I didn't do the bride to be.

So yes, I'd say they're pretty much like a trip to Mexico/Vegas. Just another reason to slut it up.
My last experience was a few months ago where I picked up 4 ladies on their bachelorette party in my taxi. I gave them a ride to where they wanted to go and dropped them off without incident (unless you count one chick asking me to sing as part of her little "goal checklist".)

Just sharing that to provide balance to the discussion. ;) This story is how pretty much all my bachelorette party fares went down.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Strelok

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They complain so much about men being superficial and dirty while the first thing they do once obtained "equality" is to do what they find dirty and superficial in men,parties with strippers and casual sex.
 

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I've seen men at their worst and I've seen women at their worst.
Let's just say, it wasn't surprising to see that the things I've seen women do in comparison to the men, is FAR worse.

It's almost like Halloween, where women truly reveal their inner slut.
 

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Kailex said:
I've seen men at their worst and I've seen women at their worst.
Let's just say, it wasn't surprising to see that the things I've seen women do in comparison to the men, is FAR worse.

It's almost like Halloween, where women truly reveal their inner slut.

Please elaborate... I'm from the garden state too btw :)
 

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I've been to bachelor parties and I've SEEN bachelorette parties.

By far, what the men do is severely outweighed by what the women do. With men, it seems like they can only go as far as their conscience or as the stripper will let them go. But whatever men do, it's usually more congruent with their day-to-day behavior than with women.

Most of the women at bachelorette parties are women that tend to seem "virginal" in their everday lives. You know, the women that couldn't possibly do a thing wrong and drop their jaws whenever they find out that one of their girlfriends screwed around on her boyfriend.

But behind closed doors, these women unleash their inner slvts.
There's no other men to criticize them there, there's no "society" to criticize them. They are ALL accomplices. It's like an unspoken code of honor (if such a thing exists for them) in which nothing will ever really be said about what TRULY happened. Those that are always talking about how *******bs are beneath them, are all of a sudden spraying a can of Ready Whip onto some stripper's johnson and cleaning that thing faster than LeBron James can bolt to Miami.

And usually, all of the women will only go as far as what the woman that's done the most during the whole party... will go. And more often than not, it's pretty far.
 

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Wow, a whole lotta fear in this thread! I've seen bachelorette parties and they're usually pretty damn tame. I doubt very much that women want their close personal friends to see them having sex with random strangers... that story would get around REAL fast.

Or do y'all just want to fantasize that women are out there getting drunk and screwing like crazed monkeys?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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