"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Babe you're not the world

Fumbduck

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A hkup buddy who's too hopeless to pursue was at a party last wk. Had a lot of potential which dissolved before my eyes in the past few months. First time we've seen eachother in a while. She went back to her ex. (Which is perfectly fine, since i'm getting what I want) However it just confirms she is worthless in my eyes.

So we're at the party and i'm walking past her, (Mind you we were VERY physical in the past) I walk behind and put my hands on her hips. She ::drunk:: then flips in front of my friends, slaps me lightly once, grab her hands (to stop her) she tries to hit me a few more times even harder! This pist me off- in a quiet, stern, tone I whisper "what are you doing, get the fvck away from me, go back to pouring drinks". I don't smile, just look directly at her, and she stares back for a few seconds then walks away. The look on her face was AWESOME. I just don't care! LOL

This girl surrounds herself with weak AFC guys and boyfriends. NO ONE ever stands up to her. What does this do in a girls mind? I'm not going to cower to her and certainly not going to be a pawn for some b!tch.

Got a nasty txt later after I left...:yawn:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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drtk

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She's an AW, glad to know you handled it like a man. :up:
 

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I found it pretty hard to follow what you meant by your incoherent English, though congratulations on having the balls to do something that should be second nature.
 

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Tekniq said:
I found it pretty hard to follow what you meant by your incoherent English, though congratulations on having the balls to do something that should be second nature.[/Quote

what was so incoherent about his post? it doesnt have to be fvkn shakespeare. he told the story. those of us with half a fvkn brain had no problem following it. could you be any more pretentious?
 

KontrollerX

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This is the kind of post the discussion forum needs more of.

Good work OP.

BTW, I too found his post highly readable and not incoherent whatsoever.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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His post was readable but it could have been typed much better.

I think you did good. never had a girl try to slap me before, i think i would flip out.
 

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mmm....couldnt help but giggle alot....ur on the right path to being a self made man
 

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Just out of curiosity, what did she say in her text mate?
 
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