"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Babe you're not the world

Fumbduck

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A hkup buddy who's too hopeless to pursue was at a party last wk. Had a lot of potential which dissolved before my eyes in the past few months. First time we've seen eachother in a while. She went back to her ex. (Which is perfectly fine, since i'm getting what I want) However it just confirms she is worthless in my eyes.

So we're at the party and i'm walking past her, (Mind you we were VERY physical in the past) I walk behind and put my hands on her hips. She ::drunk:: then flips in front of my friends, slaps me lightly once, grab her hands (to stop her) she tries to hit me a few more times even harder! This pist me off- in a quiet, stern, tone I whisper "what are you doing, get the fvck away from me, go back to pouring drinks". I don't smile, just look directly at her, and she stares back for a few seconds then walks away. The look on her face was AWESOME. I just don't care! LOL

This girl surrounds herself with weak AFC guys and boyfriends. NO ONE ever stands up to her. What does this do in a girls mind? I'm not going to cower to her and certainly not going to be a pawn for some b!tch.

Got a nasty txt later after I left...:yawn:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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drtk

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She's an AW, glad to know you handled it like a man. :up:
 

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I found it pretty hard to follow what you meant by your incoherent English, though congratulations on having the balls to do something that should be second nature.
 

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Tekniq said:
I found it pretty hard to follow what you meant by your incoherent English, though congratulations on having the balls to do something that should be second nature.[/Quote

what was so incoherent about his post? it doesnt have to be fvkn shakespeare. he told the story. those of us with half a fvkn brain had no problem following it. could you be any more pretentious?
 

KontrollerX

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This is the kind of post the discussion forum needs more of.

Good work OP.

BTW, I too found his post highly readable and not incoherent whatsoever.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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His post was readable but it could have been typed much better.

I think you did good. never had a girl try to slap me before, i think i would flip out.
 

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mmm....couldnt help but giggle alot....ur on the right path to being a self made man
 

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Just out of curiosity, what did she say in her text mate?
 
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