"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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B*tch calling me out

Stringer_Bell

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So I went on this date with a girl I have seen a couple of times before. She kept telling me (again and again) that I kept asking her the same questions. she didn't call me out on it once, but many times.

I have been dating a lot of different girls recently and after a while everything they say kind of merges into one. I can see where this b*tch is coming from, but seriously, calling me out like seven times on it? Literally every question I asked, her response was, 'You already asked me that.' I thought it was impolite.

I didn't tell her this but I take Klonopin (for anxiety and insomnia) and it has definitely caused short term memory loss. No lectures on that please, it's a separate problem.

Anyway, how would you guys react to this? Is it reasonable of her to do this? She also said her ex boyfriend used to make lists of things she mentioned and she thought it was 'cute'! Like lists of things she said she liked and didn't like. I was like, 'What the fvck, that's just weird!' but she seemed to like it. She's Colombian if that makes any difference.

Am tempted to next this ho for her behaviour tonight. She's hot though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jaylan

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Either fix your memory or take notes. Who likes repeating themselves all the time. The girl isn't being unreasonable by calling you out. Take notes when you get home from dates if youre dating more women than your mind can handle.
 
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Stringer_Bell

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Jaylan said:
Either fix your memory or take notes. Who likes repeating themselves all the time. The girl isn't being unreasonable by calling you out. Take notes when you get home from dates if youre dating more women than your kind can handle.
"Your kind"???? Sorry but what does 'my kind' mean exactly?

I don't like listening to some tedious skank drone on about her 'fascinating' work or social life but I don't repeatedly call her out on it. As for taking notes, spare me, please.
 

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No ones like to repeat themselves. When you ask the same questions, people will think you're not paying attention to them.

IMO, she was nice by pointing it out for you, so you can fix your problem. What happen if you go on dates with different girls? Will you keep asking the same questions?

The problem was not the girl who called you out, but you!
 

Stringer_Bell

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Jesus, the stuff they say is so tedious. Are you saying I actually have to listen to them? Half the time I'm just looking at them 'understandingly' and thinking about something else.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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asa_don

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don't worry about it, get to a point where you're banging instead of talking, it will all be forgotten.

Jaylan said:
if youre dating more women than your kind can handle.
nice way to insult a guy.
 

Stringer_Bell

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asa_don said:
don't worry about it, get to a point where you're banging instead of talking, it will all be forgotten.



nice way to insult a guy.
Thanks asa_don. Yeah, I'm still not sure what Jaylan meant by 'your kind'. Would you care to elaborate Jaylan? Very odd thing to say.
 

Jaylan

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Stringer_Bell said:
"Your kind"???? Sorry but what does 'my kind' mean exactly?

I don't like listening to some tedious skank drone on about her 'fascinating' work or social life but I don't repeatedly call her out on it. As for taking notes, spare me, please.
Typo, met to say mind. I would have hoped people would have looked down at the keyboard (M is close to K), read what I was typing, read the OP again where he mentions issues with his mind holding information, and been able to gather that I may have made a typo =P

And look, if its too tedious for you to at least listen to women, in order to form a decent enough connection for them to sleep with you...then be lazy, stop listening, and jerk off. All the woman is asking you to do is carry on a decent conversation and pay attention. Its not hard.
 

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Jaylan said:
Typo, met to say mind. I would have hoped people would have looked down at the keyboard (M is close to K), read what I was typing, read the OP again where he mentions issues with his mind holding information, and been able to gather that I may have made a typo =P
Ha ha, ok. that makes more sense.

Well, honestly I don't pay that much attention to what they're saying. I don't remember conversations with most women simply because they're so bland. But I take your point, if I'm to play the dating game I have to at least appear on top of things.
 

El Suave

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If a conversation is bland, get up and walk away. I've done that before. Why stick around? You don't have to say anything, fvck them.

On the other hand, if you feel that the problem is with you not being able to focus, work on it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Stringer_Bell

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They're all bland. I remember 'interesting' conversations. Everything else just washes over me. I see it as the price of pvssy. Honestly speaking making notes is the only way I won't forget what the hell they've told me and stopping them morphing into one.
 
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