"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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B*tch calling me out

Stringer_Bell

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So I went on this date with a girl I have seen a couple of times before. She kept telling me (again and again) that I kept asking her the same questions. she didn't call me out on it once, but many times.

I have been dating a lot of different girls recently and after a while everything they say kind of merges into one. I can see where this b*tch is coming from, but seriously, calling me out like seven times on it? Literally every question I asked, her response was, 'You already asked me that.' I thought it was impolite.

I didn't tell her this but I take Klonopin (for anxiety and insomnia) and it has definitely caused short term memory loss. No lectures on that please, it's a separate problem.

Anyway, how would you guys react to this? Is it reasonable of her to do this? She also said her ex boyfriend used to make lists of things she mentioned and she thought it was 'cute'! Like lists of things she said she liked and didn't like. I was like, 'What the fvck, that's just weird!' but she seemed to like it. She's Colombian if that makes any difference.

Am tempted to next this ho for her behaviour tonight. She's hot though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Either fix your memory or take notes. Who likes repeating themselves all the time. The girl isn't being unreasonable by calling you out. Take notes when you get home from dates if youre dating more women than your mind can handle.
 
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Jaylan said:
Either fix your memory or take notes. Who likes repeating themselves all the time. The girl isn't being unreasonable by calling you out. Take notes when you get home from dates if youre dating more women than your kind can handle.
"Your kind"???? Sorry but what does 'my kind' mean exactly?

I don't like listening to some tedious skank drone on about her 'fascinating' work or social life but I don't repeatedly call her out on it. As for taking notes, spare me, please.
 

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No ones like to repeat themselves. When you ask the same questions, people will think you're not paying attention to them.

IMO, she was nice by pointing it out for you, so you can fix your problem. What happen if you go on dates with different girls? Will you keep asking the same questions?

The problem was not the girl who called you out, but you!
 

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Jesus, the stuff they say is so tedious. Are you saying I actually have to listen to them? Half the time I'm just looking at them 'understandingly' and thinking about something else.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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asa_don

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don't worry about it, get to a point where you're banging instead of talking, it will all be forgotten.

Jaylan said:
if youre dating more women than your kind can handle.
nice way to insult a guy.
 

Stringer_Bell

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asa_don said:
don't worry about it, get to a point where you're banging instead of talking, it will all be forgotten.



nice way to insult a guy.
Thanks asa_don. Yeah, I'm still not sure what Jaylan meant by 'your kind'. Would you care to elaborate Jaylan? Very odd thing to say.
 

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Stringer_Bell said:
"Your kind"???? Sorry but what does 'my kind' mean exactly?

I don't like listening to some tedious skank drone on about her 'fascinating' work or social life but I don't repeatedly call her out on it. As for taking notes, spare me, please.
Typo, met to say mind. I would have hoped people would have looked down at the keyboard (M is close to K), read what I was typing, read the OP again where he mentions issues with his mind holding information, and been able to gather that I may have made a typo =P

And look, if its too tedious for you to at least listen to women, in order to form a decent enough connection for them to sleep with you...then be lazy, stop listening, and jerk off. All the woman is asking you to do is carry on a decent conversation and pay attention. Its not hard.
 

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Jaylan said:
Typo, met to say mind. I would have hoped people would have looked down at the keyboard (M is close to K), read what I was typing, read the OP again where he mentions issues with his mind holding information, and been able to gather that I may have made a typo =P
Ha ha, ok. that makes more sense.

Well, honestly I don't pay that much attention to what they're saying. I don't remember conversations with most women simply because they're so bland. But I take your point, if I'm to play the dating game I have to at least appear on top of things.
 

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If a conversation is bland, get up and walk away. I've done that before. Why stick around? You don't have to say anything, fvck them.

On the other hand, if you feel that the problem is with you not being able to focus, work on it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stringer_Bell

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They're all bland. I remember 'interesting' conversations. Everything else just washes over me. I see it as the price of pvssy. Honestly speaking making notes is the only way I won't forget what the hell they've told me and stopping them morphing into one.
 
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