"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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[B]Do You Have A Boyfriend?[/B]

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I've noticed that guys on this board tend to have issues with girls and their boyfriends. How is the boyfriend EVEN entering into the conversation? Why are you even asking a a chick this question. I mean if the this calls you and says that she needs a "Trent Reznor," you going to stop what your doing and break land speed records to get to her place to "eff her like an animal." Your NOT going to say, "You know. I would love to smash you all night, but you have a boyfriend and that wouldn't be right."

Asking about a boyfriend shows YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CONVERSATION SKILLS!!! All this question does is eff up your flow and gives the woman in question an opportunity to get out of the conversation. Besides if a chick really and truly has boyfriend, SHE'LL TELL YOU!!! And if she volunteers the information that more than likely means she's geniuinly in love with the guy. Spend your time on single available chicks.

So the time your kicking to a chick, as far as a boyfriend is concerned use the same policy that The Pentagon uses regarding homosexuals. DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And when they don't mention him, they're more interested in you.
 

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shiningshadow said:
And when they don't mention him, they're more interested in you.
Agree. Sometimes a girl will say "I have a boyfriend" unconciously to any guy they talk to as if some kind of verbal shield. However like the above poster above me, if they never mention husband/boyfriend/or even "seeing someone" you got a 50/50 chance of hitting it up.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
So the time your kicking to a chick, as far as a boyfriend is concerned use the same policy that The Pentagon uses regarding homosexuals. DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL.

:crackup: :crackup: :up:
 

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I still see this a problem on this site. So I thought I'd bring it back to see what you guys have to say about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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