"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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[B]Do You Have A Boyfriend?[/B]

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I've noticed that guys on this board tend to have issues with girls and their boyfriends. How is the boyfriend EVEN entering into the conversation? Why are you even asking a a chick this question. I mean if the this calls you and says that she needs a "Trent Reznor," you going to stop what your doing and break land speed records to get to her place to "eff her like an animal." Your NOT going to say, "You know. I would love to smash you all night, but you have a boyfriend and that wouldn't be right."

Asking about a boyfriend shows YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CONVERSATION SKILLS!!! All this question does is eff up your flow and gives the woman in question an opportunity to get out of the conversation. Besides if a chick really and truly has boyfriend, SHE'LL TELL YOU!!! And if she volunteers the information that more than likely means she's geniuinly in love with the guy. Spend your time on single available chicks.

So the time your kicking to a chick, as far as a boyfriend is concerned use the same policy that The Pentagon uses regarding homosexuals. DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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And when they don't mention him, they're more interested in you.
 

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shiningshadow said:
And when they don't mention him, they're more interested in you.
Agree. Sometimes a girl will say "I have a boyfriend" unconciously to any guy they talk to as if some kind of verbal shield. However like the above poster above me, if they never mention husband/boyfriend/or even "seeing someone" you got a 50/50 chance of hitting it up.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
So the time your kicking to a chick, as far as a boyfriend is concerned use the same policy that The Pentagon uses regarding homosexuals. DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL.

:crackup: :crackup: :up:
 

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I still see this a problem on this site. So I thought I'd bring it back to see what you guys have to say about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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