Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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[B]Do You Have A Boyfriend?[/B]

Maximus Rex

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I've noticed that guys on this board tend to have issues with girls and their boyfriends. How is the boyfriend EVEN entering into the conversation? Why are you even asking a a chick this question. I mean if the this calls you and says that she needs a "Trent Reznor," you going to stop what your doing and break land speed records to get to her place to "eff her like an animal." Your NOT going to say, "You know. I would love to smash you all night, but you have a boyfriend and that wouldn't be right."

Asking about a boyfriend shows YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CONVERSATION SKILLS!!! All this question does is eff up your flow and gives the woman in question an opportunity to get out of the conversation. Besides if a chick really and truly has boyfriend, SHE'LL TELL YOU!!! And if she volunteers the information that more than likely means she's geniuinly in love with the guy. Spend your time on single available chicks.

So the time your kicking to a chick, as far as a boyfriend is concerned use the same policy that The Pentagon uses regarding homosexuals. DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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And when they don't mention him, they're more interested in you.
 

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shiningshadow said:
And when they don't mention him, they're more interested in you.
Agree. Sometimes a girl will say "I have a boyfriend" unconciously to any guy they talk to as if some kind of verbal shield. However like the above poster above me, if they never mention husband/boyfriend/or even "seeing someone" you got a 50/50 chance of hitting it up.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
So the time your kicking to a chick, as far as a boyfriend is concerned use the same policy that The Pentagon uses regarding homosexuals. DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL.

:crackup: :crackup: :up:
 

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I still see this a problem on this site. So I thought I'd bring it back to see what you guys have to say about it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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