"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Awkward Situation

jetboy

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I need your input on this guys.
Ok, it's getting close to the third month since school started. And in two of my classes, there's this same girl sitting right next to me. I kind of have interest in her, but we never talked during these months. That crated an awkward atmosphere around us. She's not shy(I think) and she has a great sense of humor.

She began to show interest in me last week. (staring, putting her feet on my chair, when I was trying to sleep, etc.) While I was dozing off, she rubbed her feet against my leg. At first I thought it was an accident, then another followed. It was so unexpected that I pretended to be alseep..nearly gave me a boner. What should I have done? I mean, a girl that never talked to me takes such a giant leap straight into kino? Isn't it supposed to be talk -> Kino ?

I know I should have talked to her toward the beginning of school, but I find it more difficult now due to the awkwardness. What should I do with this situation? I was thinking about making the whole class laugh and gradually shift the attention from the class to her...but that would be hard.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wavejams007

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it is never to late to turn the situation around, especially in your favor. Just talk to her more aobut whatever subject. If she is really interested in you, she will play along no matter what you are talking about.
 
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Dude I'm in the same situation as you! But in my case it's wicked hard to talk to her during class because the teacher is a insecure piece of **** and won't let anyone talk while he's talking which happens to be the entire class. The girl in my class always touches me and plays with her hair during class so i started to talk to her and things got much better. She started to approuch me outside of class and things are getting better by the day. So if i were you I would talk to her and try to get her email.
 
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