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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awkward Situation

jetboy

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I need your input on this guys.
Ok, it's getting close to the third month since school started. And in two of my classes, there's this same girl sitting right next to me. I kind of have interest in her, but we never talked during these months. That crated an awkward atmosphere around us. She's not shy(I think) and she has a great sense of humor.

She began to show interest in me last week. (staring, putting her feet on my chair, when I was trying to sleep, etc.) While I was dozing off, she rubbed her feet against my leg. At first I thought it was an accident, then another followed. It was so unexpected that I pretended to be alseep..nearly gave me a boner. What should I have done? I mean, a girl that never talked to me takes such a giant leap straight into kino? Isn't it supposed to be talk -> Kino ?

I know I should have talked to her toward the beginning of school, but I find it more difficult now due to the awkwardness. What should I do with this situation? I was thinking about making the whole class laugh and gradually shift the attention from the class to her...but that would be hard.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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wavejams007

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it is never to late to turn the situation around, especially in your favor. Just talk to her more aobut whatever subject. If she is really interested in you, she will play along no matter what you are talking about.
 
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Dude I'm in the same situation as you! But in my case it's wicked hard to talk to her during class because the teacher is a insecure piece of **** and won't let anyone talk while he's talking which happens to be the entire class. The girl in my class always touches me and plays with her hair during class so i started to talk to her and things got much better. She started to approuch me outside of class and things are getting better by the day. So if i were you I would talk to her and try to get her email.
 
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