"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Awkward situation for a mate

jago25_98

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House party, me and mate talking,
"Oh so you're back together then?"
Mate: "Yeah we're kinda keeping it a secret"
Me: "I'm not sure that's a good idea mate"
(an awful thing to do people?)

Later in the front room, mate puking his guts out in the back yard and his girlfriend on the sofa,

big guy comes up to her

"How are you,
you look nice,
I know, I like you" (i.e. getting it all wrong as well)

I'm playing guitar and waiting for her to respond. Eventually I told him to shut up :D as I found it annoying.

hmmz, other than that I decided to stay out of it so far. Guess I'll continue to do so unless there's something to be said?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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??? WHAT ???
 

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Dude, where u drunk when u posted this thread? It doesnt make any sense.
 

jago25_98

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translation

It all makes sense in my own little world,

House party, me and mate talking,
Translation:
I was at a house party the other day talking to a friend.

"Oh so you're back together then?"
Translation:
It came up in conversation that my friend is back together. with his girlfriend.

Mate: "Yeah we're kinda keeping it a secret"
Me: "I'm not sure that's a good idea mate"
(an awful thing to do people?)
Translation:
My friend said that he is keeping his relationship with his girlfriend secret. I expressed the view that this is not a great idea.

Later in the front room, mate puking his guts out in the back yard and his girlfriend on the sofa,
Translation:
Hours later my friend is feeling sick `puking` and is not with his secret girlfriend.
Meanwhile I am sitting in the `front room` with his girlfriend.

big guy comes up to her
Translation:
A man approaches my friends girlfriend, he is large.

"How are you,
you look nice,
I know, I like you" (i.e. getting it all wrong as well)
Translation:
The man attempts to hit on my friends `secret` girlfriend

I'm playing guitar and waiting for her to respond. Eventually I told him to shut up as I found it annoying.
Translation:
Because my friends girlfriend is not open about thier relationship she finds it hard to respond, so I do it for her

hmmz, other than that I decided to stay out of it so far. Guess I'll continue to do so unless there's something to be said?
Translation:
I wonder what my actions should be in the future.

Comprendez-vue?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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