"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Re: Re: hmm...

Originally posted by cannibustacap
Usually what I talk about with my best buds is like asking for advice, giving advice, talking about ideas, complaining.... lots of complaiinings and making hardcore fun of people behind their backs... or recapping scenes from movies.

But mostly talking ****. Other than that we just end the conversation early.

Maybe its just me, but there are TONS of silences when I am hanging out with my buds... but they aren't "awkward" that is the thing. They are just silences.

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The more time u spend with the chick, the less arkward the "silences" will feel. try it and see;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by cannibustacap
I notice that when I listen more, I get into that "friend" category. I have to get sexual before I become a listener.
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ya good point...the girls i was doing this with were ones that happened to be good looking, but I wasn't interested in anything more than friends. Prolly not a good idea to just sit there and listen if it's someone you're interested in, you gotta do more than that.
 
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Mahon, what happened, did you go out with her? Anyways, good luck in beantown, man, when are you going?
 
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