"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Altoidss

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Hey all,

I think I'm doing pretty good most of the time, people (and girls) seem to like me a lot.

However, I do have one problem. I seem to make a lot of awkward comments, I don't notice and usually the reaction doesn't make it seem like that, but I guess it's a fact. I think it stems that when I talk to a girl, I make A LOT of sex jokes. What makes a sex joke acceptable and what makes it an awkward comment?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you are just starting out-it's probably best to stay away from the sex jokes all together;they most likely make you come off as a sex starved individual which isn't attractive persona.
Try seperating yourself and making conversation/jokes about a non sexual topic.
 
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Run everything you say through the 'shall I think it not say it?' filter. Silence or a sly smile is often the best option. Let her try and guess what you are thinking.
 
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well the problem with that is that I guess I lack the taboo of talking about sex. I"m completely comfortable talking about it with girls, so it never seems awkward to me. I'm just not sure what to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Altoidss said:
well the problem with that is that I guess I lack the taboo of talking about sex. I"m completely comfortable talking about it with girls, so it never seems awkward to me. I'm just not sure what to do.
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