"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A long story must be cut short, oneitits for 4 years.

It's at the stage that other women flirt with me on a daily basis, but I never feel any reason to persue things because my oneitis is always in the back of my mind.

I'm young, wealthy (as in a lot wealthier than people four times my age), reasonable looking, confident verging on arrogant, but I have sever oneitis for this girl.

Yet somehow I cannot get over her, I meet her regularly, and she flits with me, hugs and kisses me (cheek), and says I love you, but somehow ever after years of this, things will not progress.

What to do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think you know the answer.

Next her, bang some of these women who flirt with you, and move on. Hell, that's about the only chance you have to get in her pants at this point.
 
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Falcon said:
Have you made a move on her yet?
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As in?
Well, I kissed her on her cheek, because I was going for a kiss on the lips but it just kind of happened, I kissed her on the cheek because it was the closest thing... She then kissed my cheek back...
She often presents her hand to me, and I cannot let go, she does not pull it away, but she will look at me in the eyes, so I let go then to save embaressment.
 
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styleman said:
As in?
Well, I kissed her on her cheek, because I was going for a kiss on the lips but it just kind of happened, I kissed her on the cheek because it was the closest thing... She then kissed my cheek back...
She often presents her hand to me, and I cannot let go, she does not pull it away, but she will look at me in the eyes, so I let go then to save embaressment.
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Four years and nothing? It's not going to happen. If the only move you've made is to chick her on the cheek, then you blew it. No matter how much we might wish it were different, we have to be the aggressors when it comes to sex. With 20+ chicks in my lifetime, only 2 made the first move. One of them was a big chick, the other was the town bopper.

Holding hands and eye staring is nothing. Chicks do that with their gay friends all the time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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