"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A long story must be cut short, oneitits for 4 years.

It's at the stage that other women flirt with me on a daily basis, but I never feel any reason to persue things because my oneitis is always in the back of my mind.

I'm young, wealthy (as in a lot wealthier than people four times my age), reasonable looking, confident verging on arrogant, but I have sever oneitis for this girl.

Yet somehow I cannot get over her, I meet her regularly, and she flits with me, hugs and kisses me (cheek), and says I love you, but somehow ever after years of this, things will not progress.

What to do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think you know the answer.

Next her, bang some of these women who flirt with you, and move on. Hell, that's about the only chance you have to get in her pants at this point.
 
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Falcon said:
Have you made a move on her yet?
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Well, I kissed her on her cheek, because I was going for a kiss on the lips but it just kind of happened, I kissed her on the cheek because it was the closest thing... She then kissed my cheek back...
She often presents her hand to me, and I cannot let go, she does not pull it away, but she will look at me in the eyes, so I let go then to save embaressment.
 
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styleman said:
As in?
Well, I kissed her on her cheek, because I was going for a kiss on the lips but it just kind of happened, I kissed her on the cheek because it was the closest thing... She then kissed my cheek back...
She often presents her hand to me, and I cannot let go, she does not pull it away, but she will look at me in the eyes, so I let go then to save embaressment.
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Four years and nothing? It's not going to happen. If the only move you've made is to chick her on the cheek, then you blew it. No matter how much we might wish it were different, we have to be the aggressors when it comes to sex. With 20+ chicks in my lifetime, only 2 made the first move. One of them was a big chick, the other was the town bopper.

Holding hands and eye staring is nothing. Chicks do that with their gay friends all the time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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