"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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awesome opener for winging sets!

Chev.Chelios

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Sharing a little tip that has gotten me a decent amount of success over these past few months.
This works.. alot, of course the set interest level always varies.

When your buddy/wing opens a set, i usually nose dive into it after him
spitting these lines to the targets friends..

LINES!
"Hey excuse my friend here, Hes very outgoing... );"

"He always does this, approaching total strangers.."

"I tell him he cant just walk up and talk to strangers.. But yet here
he goes again! look at him.. thinking hes so boss, jeeze.."

"Sorry about my friend here, i tell him he cant just talk to
random people but he does it anyway.. wow so rude huh );?"

"look at him go, ohhhh jeeze, god i cant go anywhere with this guy"

USUALLY the targets friends laugh a little and got completely disarmed
most of the time.

Ill point at him and go "Alpha!" Then point at myself and go, Me.. BETA :(:(:("

"My friend always get the girls but im the shy one, pooooor me."

lololol

If i see my wing needs my assistence, I usually look for ...
- The wtf look from targets friend.. Whos this guy talking to our HB now? wahh

- If its 2 girls ill wait until her friend is derping watching them talk..
feeling left out, bored etc.. If shes on her phone or doesnt care i wont
bother, if shes cute go in GLADLY using the same lines above.

- If its a couple, girl and guy, and the dudes a chode and getting antsy over his
"girl" being chatted up with another guy ill open him, if hes a cool dude(rarely)
who i can tell doesnt care ill leave him be.. or say whats up if hes COOL, maybe even
point out other girls(set merge) and open for him blowing him out on purpose LOL dont do that.

Best Case Ontarioooo
the goal is to let your wing just have some fvcking time to get to know the girl hes gaming
without all the FVCKING distractions that prevent him from doing so. If you hit it off with the targets
group, or friend.. and your wing hits it off with his gurl, the group will already except your friend then you guys can join up with them, get numbers.. maybe invite them all for an after party etc...

TL;DR

When your wing opens a set use the lines i listed above.
Keep your vibe very light, like you dont know wtf is going on.
and just smile alot and have fun, your wing will love you for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too old for night game now. But I love the win win thinking. Too many guys r miserable c0ckblocks when they're out with their mates and r stuck in win lose mindset. I've got a big fat nerdy mate I'm trying to teach the rudiments of game and I do do a bit of the supermarkets.
 
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