"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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awesome move, and reply it`s badass

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today when i was outside whit the volunteers on acitivity
i and one girl got particullary were going in front and at one point she ask me
this is tottally awesome, it`s pure genius

Her: Are u cold (i was having a t-shirt and were like 17c outside)
Me : Touch me to see if i am cold.
Her: She touched me
Me : What are u doing, hitting on me
Her: U are a small pervert
Me: in my mind as i was having the sly smile i know

she started laughed and then tryed to share the conversation whit the group but she was having ezitations but still she shared it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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After deciphering your aweful "nglsh sklz".. wtf?

Sure, you weren't a total AFC, but that's weak. You're like Bud Lite (henceforth known as weak near-frozen gnat's urine), and actual DJs are Guiness. Bud Lite beats water, but not by much.

I guess it really depends where you started from, but it doesn't look like you were anything special.

Oh, and you seriously need to learn how to write.
 

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being jerk is not always good, I was a nice guy and because I got frustrated I naturaly turned into a jerk with women without knowing it (evolution , adaptation) and its not better than being a nice guy I am trying to be in the middle now.
 

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Fred Da Head said:
After deciphering your aweful "nglsh sklz".. wtf?

Sure, you weren't a total AFC, but that's weak. You're like Bud Lite (henceforth known as weak near-frozen gnat's urine), and actual DJs are Guiness. Bud Lite beats water, but not by much.

I guess it really depends where you started from, but it doesn't look like you were anything special.

Oh, and you seriously need to learn how to write.
Guiness? So DJ's are bland, tasteless beer that doesn't sparkle?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ope said:
today when i was outside whit the volunteers on acitivity
i and one girl got particullary were going in front and at one point she ask me
this is tottally awesome, it`s pure genius

Her: Are u cold (i was having a t-shirt and were like 17c outside)
Me : Touch me to see if i am cold.
Her: She touched me
Me : What are u doing, hitting on me
Her: U are a small pervert
Me: in my mind as i was having the sly smile i know

she started laughed and then tryed to share the conversation whit the group but she was having ezitations but still she shared it.

Ahhh your writing skills reminded me of this:
http://stopgeek.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/sense.jpg
 

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snowdog said:
Guiness? So DJ's are bland, tasteless beer that doesn't sparkle?
No, no, no, you got it backwards. I said DJs are NOT weak near-frozen gnat's urine (aka Bud Lite).
 

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ummm

Dude, First I Think You Need To Learn How To Talk And Write In At Least Semi- Coherent English, Before You Go Picking Up Fat Chicks From Kentucky That Think Your Little Stupid Move Is Good. I Think That Is Way More Of A Problem Then The Problem You Have Getting Laid Lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bustingducks4 said:
Dude, First I Think You Need To Learn How To Talk And Write In At Least Semi- Coherent English, Before You Go Picking Up Fat Chicks From Kentucky That Think Your Little Stupid Move Is Good. I Think That Is Way More Of A Problem Then The Problem You Have Getting Laid Lol.
You Need To Stop Writing Every Word With A First A Capital Letter.
 

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you guys are ridiculous - what this guy did, with the correct tonality and body language, is a perfect example of being playful
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Real,

You're confused. I didn't say it was a bad move, just that it's nowhere NEAR "tottally awesome," and "pure genius" "it`s" not. This is the tips section, not the "give atrociously spelled, grammar-deficient, somewhat relevant examples of things everyone already knows" section.

Good on ope for doing that, but you don't see me posting about every time I'm playful with girls, do you?
 

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typical said:
Beer = rubbish.

Go drink some vodka or whiskey. (spelling its late night not too sure LOL)
Beer=rubbish?? Don't tell me you don't like beer... or I'll tell you to jump off a really high building. I like my hard liqour but when i'm in the pub chilling with friends i'll take a beer over anything.
 
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