"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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awesome move, and reply it`s badass

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today when i was outside whit the volunteers on acitivity
i and one girl got particullary were going in front and at one point she ask me
this is tottally awesome, it`s pure genius

Her: Are u cold (i was having a t-shirt and were like 17c outside)
Me : Touch me to see if i am cold.
Her: She touched me
Me : What are u doing, hitting on me
Her: U are a small pervert
Me: in my mind as i was having the sly smile i know

she started laughed and then tryed to share the conversation whit the group but she was having ezitations but still she shared it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fred Da Head

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After deciphering your aweful "nglsh sklz".. wtf?

Sure, you weren't a total AFC, but that's weak. You're like Bud Lite (henceforth known as weak near-frozen gnat's urine), and actual DJs are Guiness. Bud Lite beats water, but not by much.

I guess it really depends where you started from, but it doesn't look like you were anything special.

Oh, and you seriously need to learn how to write.
 

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being jerk is not always good, I was a nice guy and because I got frustrated I naturaly turned into a jerk with women without knowing it (evolution , adaptation) and its not better than being a nice guy I am trying to be in the middle now.
 

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Fred Da Head said:
After deciphering your aweful "nglsh sklz".. wtf?

Sure, you weren't a total AFC, but that's weak. You're like Bud Lite (henceforth known as weak near-frozen gnat's urine), and actual DJs are Guiness. Bud Lite beats water, but not by much.

I guess it really depends where you started from, but it doesn't look like you were anything special.

Oh, and you seriously need to learn how to write.
Guiness? So DJ's are bland, tasteless beer that doesn't sparkle?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ope said:
today when i was outside whit the volunteers on acitivity
i and one girl got particullary were going in front and at one point she ask me
this is tottally awesome, it`s pure genius

Her: Are u cold (i was having a t-shirt and were like 17c outside)
Me : Touch me to see if i am cold.
Her: She touched me
Me : What are u doing, hitting on me
Her: U are a small pervert
Me: in my mind as i was having the sly smile i know

she started laughed and then tryed to share the conversation whit the group but she was having ezitations but still she shared it.

Ahhh your writing skills reminded me of this:
http://stopgeek.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/sense.jpg
 

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snowdog said:
Guiness? So DJ's are bland, tasteless beer that doesn't sparkle?
No, no, no, you got it backwards. I said DJs are NOT weak near-frozen gnat's urine (aka Bud Lite).
 

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ummm

Dude, First I Think You Need To Learn How To Talk And Write In At Least Semi- Coherent English, Before You Go Picking Up Fat Chicks From Kentucky That Think Your Little Stupid Move Is Good. I Think That Is Way More Of A Problem Then The Problem You Have Getting Laid Lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bustingducks4 said:
Dude, First I Think You Need To Learn How To Talk And Write In At Least Semi- Coherent English, Before You Go Picking Up Fat Chicks From Kentucky That Think Your Little Stupid Move Is Good. I Think That Is Way More Of A Problem Then The Problem You Have Getting Laid Lol.
You Need To Stop Writing Every Word With A First A Capital Letter.
 

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you guys are ridiculous - what this guy did, with the correct tonality and body language, is a perfect example of being playful
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Real,

You're confused. I didn't say it was a bad move, just that it's nowhere NEAR "tottally awesome," and "pure genius" "it`s" not. This is the tips section, not the "give atrociously spelled, grammar-deficient, somewhat relevant examples of things everyone already knows" section.

Good on ope for doing that, but you don't see me posting about every time I'm playful with girls, do you?
 

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typical said:
Beer = rubbish.

Go drink some vodka or whiskey. (spelling its late night not too sure LOL)
Beer=rubbish?? Don't tell me you don't like beer... or I'll tell you to jump off a really high building. I like my hard liqour but when i'm in the pub chilling with friends i'll take a beer over anything.
 
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