"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Awesome conversation starters! And advice?

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Black.Magic

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Hey everyone!

So I thought we should have a thread on what people use to get people to start a conversation. This includes implied starters, eg Do you dress exceedingly well so you can talk to high class socialites? Do you have a fascinating tattoo that draws people in?

I'm looking to see how people showcase and take advantage of a certain aspect of their appearance or car or even their Rolex

I use my height. I'm six foot seven inches tall, so about 70% of the time when Im talking to someone new, that will point out my height, try to guess it, ask if my parents are tall, do I play basketball, etc.

The other reason why I'm starting this thread is because I would love suggestions on where to take this! Sometimes girls say I'm tall, then stand close next to me to highlight how short they look next to me. Prime kino opportunity, no?
How do I proceed with the conversation after they point out my height? What if they stand next to me?

Also I would love to hear other people's conversation starter things!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The best conversation starters happen in the moment. You can have the best canned openers that perfectly fit the situation, but if you are not in the moment, women will see right through your agenda.

Just get used to noticing things around your environment, or what people are doing. You will realize there are many things to talk about in every situation.
 
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r0cky said:
The best conversation starters happen in the moment. You can have the best canned openers that perfectly fit the situation, but if you are not in the moment, women will see right through your agenda.

Just get used to noticing things around your environment, or what people are doing. You will realize there are many things to talk about in every situation.
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Yeah I use situation openers all of the time. Just mundane stuff to see if she's receptive and interesting.

I was getting at, in the OP, things like wearing a cowboy hat in the hope that a girl might ask if you're a cowboy or a rock star lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Black.Magic said:
What do you mean?:eek:
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What ever is going on in that instant. Like if a girl is picking out an orange or something in the store and you could ask her for help how to pick that perfect orange.

You: Hows the oranges this season...
Her: eff off creep... or "pretty good so far"

and just go from there.

Keep your eyes open and pay attention. There is tons of things you could say. Its just having the balls to do so. Oh, and I heard canned lines don't really work well.
 
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slitherjef said:
What ever is going on in that instant. Like if a girl is picking out an orange or something in the store and you could ask her for help how to pick that perfect orange.

You: Hows the oranges this season...
Her: eff off creep... or "pretty good so far"

and just go from there.

Keep your eyes open and pay attention. There is tons of things you could say. Its just having the balls to do so. Oh, and I heard canned lines don't really work well.
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Ah yeah I get you slitherjef! Yep, situation openers are the best. I have never tried a canned opener, and I don't really want to. Spontaneity is the key it seems.
 
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