TheAsianLoverReturns
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Avoiding the friend zone
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
TheAsianLoverReturns
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Being sexual is very important.Voice said:In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
Thanks.
That was my mistake too. I thought this Christian girl was so innocent than I got friendzoned so **** that ****.Voice said:In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
Look at it this way. If you give a woman your time without making a move SHE WILL LIKE IT!!
That's right. She will like the feeling of hanging around with you, you being HER FRIEND, you being her orbiter/emotional tampon whatever.
But you don't want her developing feelings for you as a friend but a lover! So if you don't make a move on a girl it's only your fault for letting her develop feelings for you as a friend. It's not her fault it's YOUR FAULT!
My advice is simple. If you like a girl you shouldn't spend more than 20 or so minutes of talk time with her without asking her out. These 20 minutes can span a whole school semester, a month or whatever. Don't spend more than 20 minutes interacting with a girl without trying to get her on a date to isolate her and let her know you see her as a possible romantic partner.
Guys on here spend hours talking to them on facebook and all they get is sore hands from all the typing :crackup:
That's right. She will like the feeling of hanging around with you, you being HER FRIEND, you being her orbiter/emotional tampon whatever.
But you don't want her developing feelings for you as a friend but a lover! So if you don't make a move on a girl it's only your fault for letting her develop feelings for you as a friend. It's not her fault it's YOUR FAULT!
My advice is simple. If you like a girl you shouldn't spend more than 20 or so minutes of talk time with her without asking her out. These 20 minutes can span a whole school semester, a month or whatever. Don't spend more than 20 minutes interacting with a girl without trying to get her on a date to isolate her and let her know you see her as a possible romantic partner.
Guys on here spend hours talking to them on facebook and all they get is sore hands from all the typing :crackup:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheAsianLoverReturns
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True, most christian girls have sexual issues.JPlaya said:That was my mistake too. I thought this Christian girl was so innocent than I got friendzoned so **** that ****.
However, this weekend I f*cked a christian girl in the a$$.