"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Avoiding the friend zone

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Voice

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In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.

Good video though. I really like your channel.
 

TheAsianLoverReturns

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Voice said:
In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.

Good video though. I really like your channel.
Being sexual is very important.

Thanks.
 

JPlaya

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Voice said:
In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.

Good video though. I really like your channel.
That was my mistake too. I thought this Christian girl was so innocent than I got friendzoned so **** that ****.
 

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Look at it this way. If you give a woman your time without making a move SHE WILL LIKE IT!!

That's right. She will like the feeling of hanging around with you, you being HER FRIEND, you being her orbiter/emotional tampon whatever.

But you don't want her developing feelings for you as a friend but a lover! So if you don't make a move on a girl it's only your fault for letting her develop feelings for you as a friend. It's not her fault it's YOUR FAULT!

My advice is simple. If you like a girl you shouldn't spend more than 20 or so minutes of talk time with her without asking her out. These 20 minutes can span a whole school semester, a month or whatever. Don't spend more than 20 minutes interacting with a girl without trying to get her on a date to isolate her and let her know you see her as a possible romantic partner.

Guys on here spend hours talking to them on facebook and all they get is sore hands from all the typing :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheAsianLoverReturns

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JPlaya said:
That was my mistake too. I thought this Christian girl was so innocent than I got friendzoned so **** that ****.
True, most christian girls have sexual issues.

However, this weekend I f*cked a christian girl in the a$$.
 
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