TheAsianLoverReturns
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Avoiding the friend zone
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
TheAsianLoverReturns
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Being sexual is very important.Voice said:In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
Thanks.
That was my mistake too. I thought this Christian girl was so innocent than I got friendzoned so **** that ****.Voice said:In my experience you avoid the friendzone by being sexual. It's that simple. I made the mistake of repressing my sexuality with what I thought were more "innocent" girls and it was a mistake. It really doesn't change with the type of girl. Sexuality is universal.
Good video though. I really like your channel.
Look at it this way. If you give a woman your time without making a move SHE WILL LIKE IT!!
That's right. She will like the feeling of hanging around with you, you being HER FRIEND, you being her orbiter/emotional tampon whatever.
But you don't want her developing feelings for you as a friend but a lover! So if you don't make a move on a girl it's only your fault for letting her develop feelings for you as a friend. It's not her fault it's YOUR FAULT!
My advice is simple. If you like a girl you shouldn't spend more than 20 or so minutes of talk time with her without asking her out. These 20 minutes can span a whole school semester, a month or whatever. Don't spend more than 20 minutes interacting with a girl without trying to get her on a date to isolate her and let her know you see her as a possible romantic partner.
Guys on here spend hours talking to them on facebook and all they get is sore hands from all the typing :crackup:
That's right. She will like the feeling of hanging around with you, you being HER FRIEND, you being her orbiter/emotional tampon whatever.
But you don't want her developing feelings for you as a friend but a lover! So if you don't make a move on a girl it's only your fault for letting her develop feelings for you as a friend. It's not her fault it's YOUR FAULT!
My advice is simple. If you like a girl you shouldn't spend more than 20 or so minutes of talk time with her without asking her out. These 20 minutes can span a whole school semester, a month or whatever. Don't spend more than 20 minutes interacting with a girl without trying to get her on a date to isolate her and let her know you see her as a possible romantic partner.
Guys on here spend hours talking to them on facebook and all they get is sore hands from all the typing :crackup:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheAsianLoverReturns
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True, most christian girls have sexual issues.JPlaya said:That was my mistake too. I thought this Christian girl was so innocent than I got friendzoned so **** that ****.
However, this weekend I f*cked a christian girl in the a$$.