"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Avoiding the dry spell

youngprodigy

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Hey guys, just need some insight on my current situation. I'm 19 y/o and I notice that I either spin multiple plates at once or none at all. Currently I'm in the phase where I'm not spinning plates, other than this girl I've been **** buddies with for the past 3 months and this other girl who moves out seasonally for school.

So I noticed that by having this **** buddy around, I receive more attention from females from the possible pheromones affect. But recently I've been getting bored of her since I used to see her multiple times a week.

So should I still keep her around and hook up with her without feeling completely attracted to her or should I drop her and start dry once again.

New to TRP so I'm looking for how someone with more experience would handle this since I'm so tired of transitioning from spinning plates and being dry. Would be so much better if I couldn't constantly have plates around but I don't currently have control over that since the girls I date usually appear outta the blue aha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

wifehunter

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Get a life!

Try a hobby!
 

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Get a life!

Try a hobby!
I'm currently undertaking post-secondary education, I've been working out for the past 3 years so I have the lean and muscular physique, I love cars and work on them, I go out to functions pretty regularly. Just wondering if I should still have to worry about them finding their way to me
 

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I'm currently undertaking post-secondary education, I've been working out for the past 3 years so I have the lean and muscular physique, I love cars and work on them, I go out to functions pretty regularly. Just wondering if I should still have to worry about them finding their way to me
Do what you do. And forget about it. When it comes to chicks, doing nothing, gets the best results.

BTW, I'm car crazy, too! And, my dry spell looks like the Sahara Desert.
 
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