"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Avoiding the dry spell

youngprodigy

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Hey guys, just need some insight on my current situation. I'm 19 y/o and I notice that I either spin multiple plates at once or none at all. Currently I'm in the phase where I'm not spinning plates, other than this girl I've been **** buddies with for the past 3 months and this other girl who moves out seasonally for school.

So I noticed that by having this **** buddy around, I receive more attention from females from the possible pheromones affect. But recently I've been getting bored of her since I used to see her multiple times a week.

So should I still keep her around and hook up with her without feeling completely attracted to her or should I drop her and start dry once again.

New to TRP so I'm looking for how someone with more experience would handle this since I'm so tired of transitioning from spinning plates and being dry. Would be so much better if I couldn't constantly have plates around but I don't currently have control over that since the girls I date usually appear outta the blue aha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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Get a life!

Try a hobby!
 

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Get a life!

Try a hobby!
I'm currently undertaking post-secondary education, I've been working out for the past 3 years so I have the lean and muscular physique, I love cars and work on them, I go out to functions pretty regularly. Just wondering if I should still have to worry about them finding their way to me
 

wifehunter

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I'm currently undertaking post-secondary education, I've been working out for the past 3 years so I have the lean and muscular physique, I love cars and work on them, I go out to functions pretty regularly. Just wondering if I should still have to worry about them finding their way to me
Do what you do. And forget about it. When it comes to chicks, doing nothing, gets the best results.

BTW, I'm car crazy, too! And, my dry spell looks like the Sahara Desert.
 
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