You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yup.J Roc said:there is no such thing as the "friend zone" because you arent her "friend". you are just a guy she rejected that hasn't realized it yet so you loiter around her like a homeless man outside mcdonalds...
there are over 3 billion women on this earth! holla at a female and if she isnt feeling you then you move on.
perseverance said:There is such a thing called the friend zone, it's when a sexually repressed man befriends a woman with the sole intention of using the "friendship" as a stepping stone to something more serious in the future, unfortunately being friends usually means just that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you think about it, the friend zone isn't really about friendship at all. It's an excuse used by women to reject an undesirable. It's like a proverbial trash can for undesirable men.J Roc said:thats not a real "friendship". its manipulative tactic that guys with no game use. the moment she gets a boyfriend that "friend" will get mad and leave the picture.
if you dont like a woman, why pretend to be friends with her? do you need attention that badly?Maximummax said:the topic we are talking here is using the same reverse psychology on chicks
If they friend zone a guy, why don't we use the same technique on chicks.