"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Avoiding friend zone.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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there is no such thing as the "friend zone" because you arent her "friend". you are just a guy she rejected that hasn't realized it yet so you loiter around her like a homeless man outside mcdonalds...

there are over 3 billion women on this earth! holla at a female and if she isnt feeling you then you move on.
 

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J Roc said:
there is no such thing as the "friend zone" because you arent her "friend". you are just a guy she rejected that hasn't realized it yet so you loiter around her like a homeless man outside mcdonalds...

there are over 3 billion women on this earth! holla at a female and if she isnt feeling you then you move on.
Yup.

A girl that says "I like you as a friend" after a few dates is just a passive way of rejecting you. It's not a true friendship.

I have a bunch of girls who I've been friends with for years now that I've made out with or received BJs from. But it's a true friendship. We have a lot in common and hangout often.

By the way I've used that "I'm glad we're just friends" thing before on a girl and she responded with saying things like "Am I not good enough for you" and similar questions. It's pretty funny haha! Then you just give her some eye contact, sexually escalate, and do whatever the fvck you want!
 
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There is such a thing called the friend zone, it's when a sexually repressed man befriends a woman with the sole intention of using the "friendship" as a stepping stone to something more serious in the future, unfortunately being friends usually means just that.
 

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perseverance said:
There is such a thing called the friend zone, it's when a sexually repressed man befriends a woman with the sole intention of using the "friendship" as a stepping stone to something more serious in the future, unfortunately being friends usually means just that.

thats not a real "friendship". its manipulative tactic that guys with no game use. the moment she gets a boyfriend that "friend" will get mad and leave the picture.
 

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J Roc said:
thats not a real "friendship". its manipulative tactic that guys with no game use. the moment she gets a boyfriend that "friend" will get mad and leave the picture.
If you think about it, the friend zone isn't really about friendship at all. It's an excuse used by women to reject an undesirable. It's like a proverbial trash can for undesirable men.
 

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the topic we are talking here is using the same reverse psychology on chicks
If they friend zone a guy, why don't we use the same technique on chicks.
 

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Maximummax said:
the topic we are talking here is using the same reverse psychology on chicks
If they friend zone a guy, why don't we use the same technique on chicks.
if you dont like a woman, why pretend to be friends with her? do you need attention that badly?
 

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Search Mr. Fingers on this forUm and his friend-zone escape methods, as well as other treads. That's the kind of mindset you should have. Once you are at a more advance level, you can pull it off.... ha ha Just gotta control yourself. And yes, you can be friends with women, if you can handle it.
 
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