"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Avoiding Certain Topics

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guittarjedi

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Guys, I'm in my 30's and never had a long term relationship with a girl. What should I say to a girl if the subject of past relationships comes up? If I'm truthful it will probably scare her away. Should I lie?

-guittarjedi
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Be political and diplomatic, don't tell the truth, but don't lie either.

Anyways, there are some things you really shouldn't lie about:

- If you have been married
- If you have any children
- If you have some serious physical/psychological impairing disability.

Everything else is negotiable.
 
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nishbuk

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I heard someone on this board mention this one:

"Nothing positive can come from this conversation. Let's keep the past in the past."

There was a thread on this before...I couldn't find it though.
 
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