"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Avoiding Certain Topics

guittarjedi

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Guys, I'm in my 30's and never had a long term relationship with a girl. What should I say to a girl if the subject of past relationships comes up? If I'm truthful it will probably scare her away. Should I lie?

-guittarjedi
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kitsune

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Be political and diplomatic, don't tell the truth, but don't lie either.

Anyways, there are some things you really shouldn't lie about:

- If you have been married
- If you have any children
- If you have some serious physical/psychological impairing disability.

Everything else is negotiable.
 

nishbuk

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I heard someone on this board mention this one:

"Nothing positive can come from this conversation. Let's keep the past in the past."

There was a thread on this before...I couldn't find it though.
 
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