"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Avoid whippage

Hockey Playa

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My girlfriend lately has asked me to do alot of stuff for her, which results in me spending money. (aka. Buying lunch, booze) shes younger than me and doesnt have a car..Whats the best way to say no? or at least tease her a bit. Her requests arent that ludacris, but im scared of falling into the whipped category.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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comic_relief

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first, just ask her for favors as well.

My girlfriend buys me meals too. she puts the guilt trip on me too to get me to buy her presents. No dice.

She knows that I am dirt poor (AKA no income. I could become a Gigalo but that wouldn't help my relationship :D ). HAHA. I want to enjoy the last year of my high school career. Thats what I am going to do. Just play sports and be with my girlfriend.

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