"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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average time for phone conversation with a girl?

rocco

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What's the average time talking on the phone for you guys when your gaming a chick?

do you keep the phone conversations short and set up a date?

or do you game for as long as possible over the phone until she's really comfortable and then set up a date?

Usually when I call up people, I just call them up to set up a time to meet and what not, but it seems that some girls looove talking over the phone and that it seems that it may be a requirement in gaming some of these women to talk for long durations over the phone sometimes even hour long phone convo.., but just wanted to get some advice from yall in regard to the phone conversation game with women. thanks in advance
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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War Against Betaism

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It's usually up to me, but I've never had a conversation longer than 30 minutes with a girl.
 

rocco

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do you guys ever call just to talk, without the intention to set up a date?
 

LostAndConfused

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rocco said:
do you guys ever call just to talk, without the intention to set up a date?
Sometimes I tell the girl to call so I can flirt over the phone, but calling to talk is kinda pointless unless you live a long distance away from her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AfRoSwiss-Disiac

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Yo u only call to talk without intention of having a date if shes yo girl!!!! stop over analysing ****!! most guys on this website think to much!! juss do it!!
aight but fo real man call her keep it short until the date :)
 

I-tallionStallion

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the point is to keep the mystery....so you call make small talk for a few minutes and ask her out. if she's miles away then you can talk longer. you don't want to kill the excitement haha. But if your suave like me...it doesn't matter how long you talk lol
 

The Deacon

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Aghh, don't think about this too hard bud. If you're setting up a date, don't let it last any longer than 3 minutes. If you're calling out of the blue and just having a nice random conversation, you can go longer than that and play it out from there. Anything else in between, well, I'll just have to tell you to trust your gut on that one cause there's no real specific way of explaining phone game.
 
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